EVERYDAY ENCOUNTER WITH GOD

Pastor Sylvia's Enconters with God in the Midst of Everyday Life

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Stations of the Cross

This year I made a silent pilgrimage on Good Friday to the Experience Golgotha Project at the Steilacoom Community Church. Although I have observed the Stations of the Cross many times, each one is unique and I was not disappointed.

The Way of the Cross is a Christian devotional tradition that has been imitated for centuries. Following in the footsteps of Jesus, various “stations” recount the last moments in our Lord’s life. Documented as early as the fourth century, it is widely used as a basis for prayer and meditation by Christians who use this as a representative pilgrimage to Jerusalem. They walk the Via Dolorosa—The Way of Suffering that Jesus walked to Golgotha, the hill on which our Lord was crucified.  

This Way of the Cross began with the Passover meal. Matthew chapter 16 tells us that Jesus and his disciples met in an upper room where the food and drink had been prepared for them. And as they were eating, he said, “Truly I say to you, one of you will betray me.” (Matt 16:17-30)

How distressing this must have been for them! Who was it? Who could do such a thing? With all the drama of family and crowds and pending disappointment, I wished that I could have reassured them, “Yes, this is painful, but it is just Friday. Sunday is coming.”

After the meal, Jesus and his friends headed to a nearby garden to pray. What he wanted most was for his friends to listen and watch and pray with him, but it had been a long day. They fell asleep, even as Jesus’ sweat became great drops of blood falling to the ground, just as Judas betrayed him with a kiss.

Jesus was arrested and condemned to death. Pilate washed his hands of the entire matter. He let the people decide who would be crucified. I wonder if anyone understood that these events were occurring on Friday. Sunday was still coming.

Jesus carried his cross—Rome’s cruelest method of punishment. It was a slow, agonizing death by suffocation, while his muscles were stretched to their limits. Crucifixion was humiliating, painful, and designed for maximum torture. Carrying the cross after being scourged and in hypovolemic shock would be close to impossible. Jesus stumbled. By now he could hardly feel it when his knees hit the hard stones. This was only Friday. Sometimes our pain makes it hard for us to imagine that there is a Sunday coming.

John 19:23-24 describes a fulfillment of prophesy. “…they took His clothes, dividing them into four shares, one for each of them, with the undergarment remaining.” For this, they drew lots.

I can’t even imagine the ultimate indignity of being stripped naked, laid bare in front of the Romans who mocked him. Evil continues to treat people like this: the sick and dying, young women and children sold into sex trafficking, today’s persecuted church and others who fall into the hands of torturers around the world. Sometimes the cloak of salvation feels thin on Friday, even though Sunday is coming.

Jesus was nailed to the cross, held in place with iron spokes through his wrists and feet. I cannot begin to imagine the pain. After he received a drink of wine vinegar on a stalk of hyssop, Jesus said, “It is finished.” His life. His purpose. Friday. Finished.

His body was taken down and placed in a borrowed cave. I sat at this last station for a very long time. Pilgrims who came after me, passed me by. I touched his grave clothes. Friday had been such a long day. Sometimes our lives have many Fridays and they almost block our view of what comes next.

Saturday was silent.

Then came Sunday…

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