EVERYDAY ENCOUNTER WITH GOD
Pastor Sylvia's Enconters with God in the Midst of Everyday Life
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What Is
Your Story? When husband and I were pasturing the little church
in Yelm I read lots of other people’s sermons for inspiration. Today I
spent an hour searching for (and eventually found!) one by Pastor David
Heflin that he posted on Sermon Central in 2011. Pastor Heflin grew up in Texas where both the
athletic and academic meets are governed by a body called The University
Interscholastic League (U.I.L.). When he was in the second grade the
children were given the opportunity to compete in the U.I.L.’s
storytelling competition. Because I love hearing and telling stories,
his experience embedded in my memory and I was compelled to reread his
sermon this week. The rules were fairly straightforward. The students
listened to a teacher read a story, and then they would retell the story
as best they could before a panel of judges. Pastor Heflin wrote, “Not
knowing what I was getting into, I eagerly volunteered. The day came for
our first practice. We were to hear the story from our homeroom teacher
and then go tell the story to the other class. I had no problem on the
first part, but the second was a different matter altogether! “I stood in front of the classroom and stared
blankly into the eyes of my fellow second graders. No words were coming
out of my mouth! I was simply petrified! In a great act of mercy, the
teacher, Ms. Chisum, had me turn around and face her desk and just tell
the story to her. So with my back to the class I mumbled some pitiful
version of the story to Ms. Chisum, slipped out the door, and my U.I.L.
storytelling days were over.
“It doesn’t matter how good your story is, if you
can’t tell it.” I have days when I feel like that terrified second
grader. I know there is something compelling about my story, but I am
afraid to tell it. My back is turned to the world while I mumble my
story in church or to a close friend, but the people who need to hear it
most, don’t hear it at all. Part of the problem is that many of us don’t relate
our faith journey within the context of a compelling story. What we
believe is tightly wrapped up in our commandments, church ordinances,
sacramental liturgies, and religious vocabulary that most people don’t
even understand very well. None of those things bring people into a
relationship with Jesus. Stories do. In fact, the Bible is predominately written through
stories. Even those portions that are not in narrative form are based on
them. And let’s not forget that Jesus used parables—stories—to teach the
important lessons of love, forgiveness, and mercy. On those occasions when I have wandered from God’s
plan for my life, it is the story of the prodigal that gives me the
courage to turn around and return to Him. When I have been in great
emotional pain, I don’t search for a commandment that might set me
aright; I remember the woman who bravely touched the hem of Jesus’ robe
and was healed. When I feel insignificant, liturgy doesn’t speak to me,
but the story about a shepherd who left his flock of sheep to search for
the one who was lost reminds me of my value. The greatest thing about the biblical story is that
it isn’t just God’s story—it is ours also. He invites us into the
narrative. I don’t think God wants us to whisper our stories
to teachers while we turn our backs to the world. It is time for us to
face the classroom and boldly proclaim the living parables that have led
us home, healed our pain, and taught us that we are significant in God’s
eyes. Those are the stories people need to hear in this troubled time. Let’s speak up. |
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